As parents, we have a great responsibility towards our children. However, we must understand that we do not have the right to control them, even though they may be our own kids. Our role as parents is to be a trustee and not an owner. We should be a facilitator to help our children achieve their needs and desires, not ours.
Often, we have unfulfilled dreams that we project onto our children. For example, if we wanted to become a doctor but were unable to do so, we may pressure our children to pursue that career path. However, it is important to remember that our children have their own dreams and aspirations, and it is not fair to force our own ambitions upon them.
Similarly, in our own lives, we may have practices that we believe to be beneficial. However, we cannot force others to adopt our beliefs and practices. We can share the benefits of what we are doing, but it is ultimately up to them to decide whether or not they want to follow in our footsteps.
As parents and individuals, we must respect the autonomy of others and allow them the freedom to make their own choices. It is through this respect and understanding that we can foster healthy relationships with our children and those around us.
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